What Should I Know Before I Look for a Therapist?
Most guides to finding a therapist cover the basics. This one covers what most guides skip: how to get specific before you start, what credentials actually signal, and why a therapist's framework matters more than their modality. Part one of a series.
Why is Finding a Therapist Harder Than Anyone Tells You?
The search for a therapist asks the most of you at the moment you have the least to give. Here is an honest look at why, and how to move forward anyway.
ADHD Is More Than You Were Probably Told
ADHD is not just about focus or hyperactivity. It shifts across childhood, adolescence, adulthood, parenting, and career transitions. Emotional regulation, burnout, masking, and shame are often part of the story.
Collective Trauma and the Clinician With ADHD
Clinicians are living and working inside prolonged collective trauma. For clinicians with ADHD, the ethical, emotional, and cognitive strain is real and often under-acknowledged.
You Made It Through the Holidays
A reflective post on ADHD, nervous system overwhelm, and honoring what it took to make it through a heavy holiday season.
When Plans Meet Real Life
A reflection on ADHD, motivation, and learning to practice self-compassion when plans don’t unfold as expected.
October is ADHD Awareness Month
ADHD doesn’t have one face, it has many. Kids, parents, partners, and even clinicians live with its challenges and strengths. Every face deserves compassion, not correction
ADHD, Shame, and Suicide Risk: What We Need to Talk About
ADHD raises suicide risk, but not just from impulsivity. Shame, stigma, masking, and missed support play a big role. There is hope.
How I use AI on this blog
I write my own blog posts. There's rarely a limit to the information racing through my brain or how much of it I want to share. Especially if it might help even one person. I started my website blog because marketing told me I should. Once I started I realized there are some pluses beyond marketing. Creating a blog pushes me to think deeply about a topic, including perspectives that aren't mine, sharpen what I believe, and learn a topic properly (I read the academic research, other people's blogs, and go down the occasional four-hour rabbit hole; hello, ADHD brain). What starts as one post often turns into a series, or into teaching material for clients or other therapists.
Honestly, though, I'm a shit writer. I'm long-winded, I don't transition worth a damn, and I get so caught in my own racing thoughts that I lose the point I wanted to make in the beginning. I also want my writing to be found, so it reaches more than the people who already know me, and I don't know how to do that alone. My business isn't yet at the point where I can pay someone who does. One day, I hope it is.
This is where AI comes in. I use it to brainstorm when a topic might work better as a series than a single post. And I use it to edit, tighten sentences, check structure, and catch where I've buried the point. The ideas, the clinical perspective, and the final words in every sentence are mine. I write, AI edits, and I finalize. Then I hope someone gets something from it.
For how I think about and use AI across my work, including the concerns, see my full AI Use Policy.